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MARRIAGE
When there are problems or stress in a marriage,
a couple will benefit with having the
interactions monitored by a therapist. Sometimes
as the couple interacts in the session, baggage
or traditions that are brought into the marriage
can be looked at, compromises can be made which
lead to different results that may bring harmony
to the marriage. Marriage Counseling offers
accountability when change is needed, role
playing, and practicing of different techniques
that may be needed.
Marriage Counseling for one - Is
there hope for your marriage? Marriage
counseling is ideal when there are two
individuals working on the issues. But what
about the spouse who wants to work on problems
when the partner isn’t involved. It is possible
to improve your marriage all by yourself. Yes it
is..... What an interesting concept.
Communication
– Skills can be built to learn to communicate
feelings in a non confrontive and appropriate
way. Learn to listen and be able to connect
with others. Most of us just want to be heard
and understood.
Emotionally abandoned – When a person
lives with a spouse and still feels alone. A
person assumes he or she were never worthy in
the first place. Or the person places all his or
her happiness in the relationship with the
spouse. Many of us marry in order to connect
with someone and end up feeling isolated and
alone. Learn how to start where you are and add
healthy outside activities that will bring more
satisfaction to your union.
Educational tools will be used that will
give the couple a different perspective on their
problem. Books may be suggested for the couple
to read; assessments given to determine problems
areas. Homework may be given to help with
accountability and progress of the change
desired. Some of the tools available through
Branch Counseling are Five Love Languages, Every
Great Marriage DVD Series, Love & Respect
Classes, Smalley’s DNA of Marriages and Marriage
Boundaries. Library books are available to check
out also.
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Today's
Marriage Tip |
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Financial worries aren’t isolated to
the single issue of the checkbook.
They are part of complex web or
perceptions, values, and goals that
permeate every other area of our
lives: the way we raise children,
how we relate to in-laws, the way we
communicate, and what happens
between the sheets. Finding peace in
the area of finances brings joy in
every area of life.
(Excerpt from “10 Things you
Aren’t Telling Him,” by Julie
Clinton.) |
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